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As a child my grandmother would often remind me
“you sure do like to talk” in attempt to quiet me. My teachers questioned my mother asking “have you thought about putting Shakia on ADHD medication?” in an attempt to subdue my high energy. During my younger years my love for conversation and my natural energy was looked at as something to be suppressed. Well, well, well isn’t it interesting that my ability to captivate people with conversation and my high energy are two of the qualities that I am often praised for in my latter years? They are the very traits that make me a sought after speaker. I am told countlessly how my words are going to “change people’s lives” and my energy is “contagious.” Those two traits, which were once frowned upon, are exactly what are putting smiles on the faces and in the hearts of the people I come into contact with today." - Shakia
The Decision is a conversation that invites readers to travel Shakia's journey as she recounts some of her most disappointing, tempting and insightful moments while practicing abstinence. In a world where sex is such an influential tool, Shakia has made the decision to forfeit the perks. Instead she has decided to hold on to something that she has decided only her husband deserves to experience. Are you on your own abstinent journey? Are you contemplating the journey, but are unsure? Well, you need this book! In these pages you will:
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Be inspired by abstinent goers’ testimonies.
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Be provided with tips to overcome situations.
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Become confident in your decision.
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